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why staying in one path is hard, Especially for twenties?

By ABIMANYU


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Why staying in one path is hard? especially for twenties.
We may say that we think it is hard to stay in one path so it is actually becoming harder to be so, i totally agree with the fact, yet still we are going to discuss some probable answers for the question "why" 

Point no1:

It is mainly because we lack passion in it

We may have noticed our brain jumping here and there because nowadays we no more like being same, Cuz we all so excited but not consistent. If we don't have a consistent enthusiasm in a thing we are doing, then eventually we quit or our behavior towards it will urges us to quit. How many of you agree with the fact that almost 80-90% of people hate their jobs, most of us right? .If we are a beginner to a job, everyone get to feel the excitement of a new job, as the salary and new environment feels good, but eventually trust me guys, all the excitement gets kicked out when you lack passion for it. Then if you are pitched with a idea or a new job which is more comfortable offer to replace this current situation, it's more likely that you say Yes! for it. 



Since we lack passion it is damn harder to stay in a same path, especially when we are in twenties because most of us experiment things in our twenties which may help us not only find our passion but also definitely causes to switch paths more often


Point no2:

We are built up in such a way that we can't out perform it

"really?" , oh yeah!. we can't change our habit, definitely No, ofcourse we can. let's say it is hard to change a habit, isn't it?. "wait Mr. Blogger why are you talking about habits suddenly", because we are known by our habits all the time, which also build our subconscious mind. Let's see how a habit is built or formed 





HABIT :
"a routine of behavior that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously"  source

"It is formed by stream of behaviors which we perform consistently, becomes automatic or habitual", Huuh! boring?, I don't want to bother you guys with more formal definitions, let me keep it sweet and simple. If we do the same thing again and again, at some point of time we get to feel that we do it automatically without even focusing on it, then congratulations my dear friends you said to have built a habit. 


In our twenties most of us choose or have chosen our future path, don't we?, Till our age of 20 all of us have some habits which may be good or bad but we had to give up on not all but some habits to pursue our future path or goal, Since breaking the habitual loop is regarded Hard!, it's hard to get rid of what we have automated, Most of us failed to be in a path which we have chosen to be, finally ending up choosing alternate paths which can easy up with our habits. So moral of the story "Toxic Habits can ruin your positive plan and won't let you to stay in a positive way also leading to change paths frequently". 

CONCLUSIONS:
These are the root causes of the question "why".although we know why it is happening it is worthwhile to know how to handle such situations when our mind trick us to pick alternate ways.


* Try not to consume more and more stuff which will often circle around your mind, sometimes leads us to change paths. Try to keep your goals neat and simple and get going towards it.

* Always think once the consequences of our behavior before we do and if you are confident that you are not gonna regret it then go for it.

* Work hard towards your decisions and when you are down convince you are digging a bigger diamond when you are working more hours.

* Creating a habit and deleting habits are hard but always know little little progress will make a bigger difference.

* Finally, Be conscious of the decisions you make

There it ends!
Come back and bye guys!
Hope you find this blog useful and if this blog raised any questions, confusions or any sort of thoughts please let me know in the comments or you can mail it (email given below)

A New Perspective on Staying on One Path

I wrote this article when I was much younger, and my thoughts on staying on one path have evolved since then.

If you're interested in a more updated perspective on why we struggle to stay consistent, especially in our twenties, I explored the topic again here:

Why Is It So Hard to Stay on One Path in Your 20s?


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